Transitioning from Relaxed to Natural Hair

If you are visiting this site for transitioning from relaxed to natural hair, it is likely that you fall into one of 5 categories:

These names also reflect the metaphor that I use throughout that your hair is like a beautiful flower and it simply needs to be watered and nourished to grow strong and healthy.

Regardless of which category you fall into, you have come to the right place because we have something for everyone. Make sure you sign up for the transitioning from relaxed to natural hair email list, take the poll, and also leave a comment so we know who you are and why you came by!

Transitioning from Relaxed to Natural Hair Care Tip of the Week

What are some of the best products for 4c hair or when transitioning from relaxed to natural hair?
Refer to the Products and Tools page for information.

Download our E-Book for more detailed tips and advice.

Learn specific tips for how to:
~Avoid breakage and hair loss.
~Protect and strengthen your ends
~and much more!

Transitioning from Relaxed to Natural Hair

A resource for information on transitioning from relaxed to natural hair.

Based on personal transitioning experience! Visit the gallery to see transitioning photos and hairstyle ideas.

General Hair Care Regimen for Transitioning from Relaxed to Natural Hair

Transitioning from Relaxed to Natural Hair - General Regimin
When you are transitioning from relaxed to natural hair, there is definitely a learning curve on how to care for your “new growth” texture as well as how to manage two textures combined together.

Process
The process I’m describing here is a general wash and care regimen helping you to figure out the best way to wash, detangle, condition, and style. As 4c hair gets longer, the tangles become incredible and the sheer volume of hair can get overwhelming. When ever I wash my hair I just think “Whew!” Its a lot of hair.

You can do this in the shower or you can do it over the sink. Having a spray nozzle or removable shower head really helps.

  1. Thoroughly wash/rinse hair in sections. It makes it easy to part your hair off into about 6-10 sections and keep them separated with butterfly clamps.
  2. Apply the deep conditioner to thoroughly rinsed sections.
  3. Afer all sections are conditioned, comb through each section with the wide tooth comb to detangle.
  4. Put on a plastic cap and allow hair to deep condition for 15 – 30 minutes. The longer the better.
  5. Rinse hair thoroughly again removing the sections as you go.

Now it is cleaned and conditioned. The next steps depend on what you want to do:
High Pouf
Stretch it Out! – Twist Out
Maintenance Moisture

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If you feel like you have damaged hair due to chemical relaxing and you want to get information about long term transitioning without doing the big chop, please take some time to explore the site. We have all of the transitioning hair care tips you could want including the best information on long term transitioning. We have special tips for deep conditioning, how to grow long hair, the best transitioning products and tons of ideas for natural hair styles.

Transitioning to natural hair can be very easy and also fun if you have the right hair styles and the correct knowledge about black hair care. Once your new growth begins to take over you can still go for a long time before you cut off relaxer ends. Our guidelines are appropriate for all hair types 4a, 4b, 4c, 3a, 3b and 3c. No big chop required!

Transitioning from Relaxed to Natural Hair

A resource for information on transitioning from relaxed to natural hair.

Based on personal transitioning experience! Visit the gallery to see transitioning photos and hairstyle ideas.

Download our E-Book for more detailed tips and advice.

Learn specific tips for how to:
~Avoid breakage and hair loss.
~Protect and strengthen your ends
~and much more!


3 Key Steps for Successfully Caring for Natural Hair

Check out the FAQ for quick answers to your questions about transitioning!

You are thinking about transitioning from relaxed to natural hair and you are wondering what to do first. Before you move on to read my personal experience and go over some tips, advice, and product ideas, I’ll give you the quick rundown of how to start.

  1. Get clear on your goals. When transitioning from relaxed to natural hair, it is important to write down your wish or desire and put it up in your bathroom. “I want my beautiful, healthy, natural hair.” And think about or write down why you want to give up on relaxers.
    For me it was that the chemicals were killing my scalp and I got one bad burn that was the last straw. I simply didn’t want to do it anymore, but when the transitioning gets a little tough, I think about my goals and it helps me to keep going.

    If you start thinking you might want to relax your hair again, watch the movie Good Hair. In particular the scene where he shows what happens to a piece of meat when the straightener is applied to it. Yuck!

  2. Find resources and support. Information is power, and if you have been getting relaxers since you were a little girl,you may not know much about your natural hair texture. A great first step when transitioning from relaxed to natural hair is to read about it online in blogs. Its great to feel like you are not alone in some of your triumphs and even your frustrations. Click here for a list of popular resources.
  3. Review the products and tools that you already have. Do you have a good blow out comb on your blow dryer? You might decide NO HEAT ever again, but then again, you might want to do a blow out every once in a while. Is your cabinet stocked with tons of unhealthy and unnatural products? Take a look at the ingredients lists and see what you are already working with. Remove any products with petroleum, mineral oil, sulfates and other unhealthy products. Click here for a list of great products for transitioning from relaxed to natural hair.

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Grow it Long Hair Care Guide Review

Review of “Grow It Long: Discover Honest Proven Secrets to Growing Your Hair”

Includes a 6 month plan for extreme hair growth

Like many of you, when I started thinking about going natural I searched all over the internet to find as much information as I could on what products to use and how my hair care routines would have to change. During this research I came across this guide: “Grow It Long: Discover Honest Proven Secrets to Growing Your Hair From the Nape of Your Neck to the Center of Your Back in a Few Short Months” by Donna Hanover.

This is a review of the guide. Click here to visit the Grow it Long website.

At first I thought that the guide was a bit too expensive, $24.97, and I didn’t really believe that it could possibly contain any secrets that I could not find for myself online. But as I continued to buy more and more products and trying EVERYTHING I kept going back to the web page and wondering “What are these secrets?” “Are there really any secrets?!?!” This was especially true as I came to that 6 month to 12 month phase where it gets extremely frustrating.


Well, I’m a curious person, and I also considered how much money I have spent over my lifetime trying all of the different hair care products that I did try. Sometimes I saw results and sometimes I didn’t, so I figured this wouldn’t be any different and I decided to try it. I thought, what if this guide really provides the answers that I am looking for and I never buy a bunch of useless products again? That would be a money saver.

Believe it or not, there are secrets!

Well, there really are secrets. Some of the “secrets” overlap with things that I did find on my own and some tips that I have included on this site. But, this lady actually did some serious research and experimentation and came up with some extremely interesting and useful information. Of course, it would be wrong for me to share her secrets, so I’m doing the next best thing and just reviewing her book.

This guide addresses many of the questions we all have about our hair…

  • How do I get my to grow faster
  • How do I improve the strength and texture of my hair?
  • How do I soften my hair and make it more manageable?
  • How do I avoid knots and breakage?

6 month extreme hair growth challenge

My favorite part of the guide is the 6 month hair growth challenge. She provides clear instructions on what you can do every day to ensure that you are achieving maximum hair growth. This includes diet, products, and regimen.

I tried it myself

I took a few months to try out Donna Hanover’s tips and advice and the regimen that she suggests in the guide, and now I can honestly say that I recommend this guide as an excellent resource for anyone who wants to grow out their natural hair and see it thrive.

What I Loved About the Book

  • It is real. As I said I have been trying her techniques over the past few months, especially the scalp care and general regimen. And I saw results! I have nearly cured my dry flaky scalp, which I have written about elsewhere on this site, my hair texture has improved, and my hair is growing fast.
  • It contains true secrets that you have never heard anywhere else.
  • She includes a scientific hair care study which talks about how your frame of mind and emotional state have an effect on your hair. I love this, and as you know, if you’ve explored the site, I actually talk about this myself. This was when I realized that Donna Hanover and I were on the same page.
  • There is also a bonus book of recipes of healthy hair foods.
  • She also offers a 60 day money back guarantee, so there really is no risk in trying the guide. I did not see any reason to return it, but if you decide to give it a try and then decide to return it, please let me know. I’d be interested to hear more feedback because I don’t want to recommend something that people would return.
  • I saw results! – I just have to say this again. Its pretty exciting when something you try actually works.

Click here see the techniques I learned to make my hair grow longer, faster.

Some constructive criticism

There were just a few small things that I did not like about the guide, and/or the experience with the website.

  • #1 – When you go to see more information about the book, the web page has this overly aggressive pop-up which keeps popping even after you have closed it. I’m always turned off by sites that do this, but I overlooked it to find out the secrets.
  • #2 – Her “Free EBook” is sort of just a rehash of the web page. I hope that my free guide provides some value and extra information that you didn’t already have. If not, please let me know and I will change it. I did not find her Free Ebook very useful, and I was turned off by it thinking that the real book might not be any good either. After seeing the real guide, I can say that she probably just got some bad advice on how to go about this aspect of the package.
  • #3 – There are some formatting, grammar and spelling mistakes on the site and in the book. As a writer this stuff is like nails on a chalkboard to me, but I’m willing to overlook it for solid information – which this guide delivered big time.

I have wanted to write my own hair care guide, so of course I look at the mistakes and think of how I could do it better. However, I couldn’t come close to the research and experience which this guide provides. So in the meantime, this one does provide some quality information which I think is extremely useful.

Here’s the table of contents to give you an idea of what topics are covered…
Grow it Long

Click here to see more information about Grow It Long: Discover Honest Proven Secrets to Growing Your Hair From the Nape of Your Neck to the Center of Your Back in a Few Short Months


New Product Tested! – WEN Hair Care System Review

I finally tried WEN, and I liked it!

Have you ever been up late at night or early in the morning and you’ve seen the infomercial for the WEN haircare system? Well, I have seen this TOO many times. And they always have lovely looking models getting half their hair treated with WEN and half treated with something else. I always rolled my eyes at this because I know better.

Then one day my friend just out of the blue offered me her 2nd supply of the product. She had ordered it and got one free. So she gave it to me, and of course I tried it right away, because I love trying new hair products. I’ll just let the pictures speak for themselves…

Twist Out Process

I think this is the first picture I've posted of the twist out process. This is how I do a fast twist out of the shower.

The result after drying. Soft, bouncy and curly. This style lasts nearly a week if I take good care of it and don't get it wet.

The treatment was really nice. My hair came out of a pretty fast twist out style feeling really soft and it was manageable. I liked it enough to order a kit of my own to keep using. What I liked the most is that my hair felt soft right away after I washed it with the Cleansing Conditioner. I’ve now tried both the Sweet Almond Mint and the Fig scented one, and they both smell great.

Oh, and I have really thick full hair, as you can see. The Cleansing Conditioner lasts about 4 or 5 washes (so about 8 weeks for me). The other products have lasted much longer. The texture balm is awesome for styling and it also lasts for a long time. I can’t exactly tell.. maybe 4 or 5 months. I don’t use it every day.

I’m excited about this product because its one of the rare times I’ve seen something advertised that actually works when you get it. And also, many of you have been asking me about something that does exactly what this product has done for my hair… Softens it, makes it manageable, conditions, protects…

But I do have to go back and stay I still advocate for natural/home made products over anything else. This is just for the ladies who like to try a lot of things and/or don’t have the time for or interest in home made hair products.

Its a fancy Co-Poo
This is the same concept behind what most of us know as co-poo, washing your hair with just conditioner. If you are still looking for the right product to co-poo, this could be the one. You can also achieve very similar results if you find the right other conditioner … I don’t think the WEN people have really invented anything all that unique. They just have it packaged just right, smelling great, and with the right combination of ingredients. If you have found another great conditioner that works well for the co-poo please let me know so I can add it to my list! … but I’m getting off topic.

Kinky Hair
Now, for kinky girls, this will NOT be some miracle potion that will suddenly make your hair curly. No, sorry, not gonna happen. But, as I said, it made my hair soft and really super manageable right out of the shower.

Curly Hair
For curly girls, the product really does add shine and bounce. It helps define the curls. The friend that started me off on this product has curly hair (she’s mixed, Black and Phillippino). It works really well on her hair.

General Conditioning Hair
For all transitioners, I’d say its a great product because it is gentle and protects your hair as it grows out. Of course I’m trying this after my relaxed hair is already long gone, but I’m familiar enough with these sorts of things to be able to tell how it will work on that combination hair.

Thoughts/Warnings/Caveats
One thing that you have to be careful of if you do decide to try it is that they enroll you in an autoship program. I’m a pro at ordering things like this. You just write down the date that you are supposed to cancel on your calendar (pda, outlook, pop-up, alarm, ect), then cancel it. Along with that, take note of the email address, the phone number, your customer info, ect. As long as you pay attention and take care of business, this should not be any hassle. I haven’t had any issues at all. Or maybe you’ll love it and you won’t want to cancel. I just found that it was too much product to have it keep coming so often. They also offer free shipping and a money back gurantee.

Click here to try WEN for yourself.
WEN Hair Care System Review

Let me know your results!!! If I get other feedback from people saying that this doesn’t work for them, I’d like to add it. As we well know, not all products work well for all hair. So please keep me posted!

–Imani.

Wen Hair Care System


What is the best way to keep my natural hair moisturized?


When you are transitioning from relaxed to natural hair, there is definitely a learning curve on how to care for your “new growth” texture as well as how to manage two textures combined together.




I think one of the most shocking thing about discovering your natural hair is when it turns into a dry, brittle, umovable pouf and it seems like there is nothing that can be done with it. At this point just remember, water is your friend!

Moisturize with water first and then add a moisturizer. Put a light oil such as jojoba, shea, or olive oil to seal in the moisture. After this, you can do a twisted or braided style to add a wave or texture to your hair. Braiding or twisting while wet also allows you to retain more of the moisture as your hair dries.

If you can’t do this every day, make sure you don’t go for more than 3 or 4 days without applying some moisture and oil to your hair.

Moisture is also the answer to how to keep your natural or transitioning hair healthy.

 

Download our E-Book for more detailed tips and advice.

Learn specific tips for how to:
~Avoid breakage and hair loss.
~Protect and strengthen your ends
~and much more!


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